20:51 Sep 08 2021
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Blind devotion, or hopelessly blind devotion, is just so... toxic. Cult members die over this kind of stuff.
Makes it even sadder when it's a relationship, it's like a cult of two. Each partner has characteristics that his/her partner loves—and those that are not as attractive. When you ignore those characteristics that, let's say, makes them a shitty person, then you are enabling shitty behavior. Causing damage in the process.
The hopelessly devoted lover is not in a genuine, loving relationship with the beloved, regardless of any other circumstances. The hopelessly devoted lover is, in a sense, blind and irresponsible for her actions. Moreover, the beloved has no significant responsibility, because no matter what he does, the lover's activities will not change.
Let's be real-
It doesn't matter what we say to the ones who are in this situation. Things have been pointed out in different ways, either nicely or in a not so nice fashion- and yeah I'm guilty of the second one. Nothing is going to change. They both are going to/ and do lie. They both are delusional. They both are not the brightest crayons in the box, hell, not even the second brightest.. I'm thinking more like.. black crayon bright. They both are going to enable the lies, the delusions, the 'thinking they are more important than they are' and just the shitty, shitty behavior. There is no changing any of that because it doesn't matter what you say, one of them will always support; support in the continuous lies and the continuous bad behavior.
Pointing out the shitty behavior can be fun. And yeah, you know after all the shit that has been pulled, they both deserve the shit they get. I'm not normally like that, but fuck them and their crazy asses. You can hope that one idiot will actually learn, but not going to happen.
Block them. Dishonor them. Ignore them. Poke fun. Speak out if someone askes. Etc. Just give them no more energy than that because in the end none of it really matters because they will end up destroying each other mentally and possibly physically.
Take that energy and use it for something else and just let them destroy one another.
And yeah.. I'm another one that has both of them blocked because, I don't have the desire to deal with that much bat shit crazy. I have my own crazy to deal with.
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MooniePie
20:58 Sep 08 2021
Wiccanmoon
21:31 Sep 08 2021
Agree totally. I do have a new house I love and adore and need to witchifi and a loving little girl that needs her momma. I know I have been on a lot but I have to think of myself and home. I wish you all could visit my witchy home...drink tea on my deck and just shoot the poop and laugh. Once I get my home the way I want I will share. BLESSED it be folks.
MooniePie
21:45 Sep 08 2021
Witchy houses are my fav. I'm glad you're loving your new home!
CuRsEdToDaRkNeSs
21:46 Sep 08 2021
Well said. We all have to vent it out when the stupid gets to be too much (which is what happens in my case) on occasion... but at the end of the day it is totally known that the stupid is so strong and the delusions are so deep that it will not change no matter what. It takes a hella lot to get on my block list but absolutely it has happened in this case. I just can not with these people anymore. I will sit back, wait and watch the shit show unfold and honestly I will likely laugh and laugh and laugh when it does... I am not normally like that but some people just bring out the sure evil in you. I can't say that on the occasion the stupid won't be too much for me and that I will not need to vent it out in a journal but hey... we're only human right? lol. I mean honestly, think about it... HOW BAD do you have to fuck up to get blocked by MULTIPLE admins.... the people that are your only source for help when it is needed.... *shakes head*
MooniePie
21:52 Sep 08 2021
I'm not normally like that either. I'm more of an.. ehh.. whatever, and do something else because I don't want to be the constant asshole or bitchy one. But those two, fuck all that. They brought it on themselves.
CuRsEdToDaRkNeSs
22:03 Sep 08 2021
Absolutely... everything that comes at them has been earned and well deserved.
IveXtastedxthexrainbow
15:01 Sep 09 2021
Washing your hands clean of a pointless situation is always relaxing. There’s nothing to say to them, because of the delusions and they love it. Truly, we are only feeding into things by giving them something to do on here in regards to conversation and interaction. They have caused enough stress, irritation, and drama. Time to let them become “ghosts” of VR :)
MooniePie
17:09 Sep 09 2021
People who have to start off everything they says with 'So and so is the most important and they are this, this and this' are just doing it to not only convince everyone else of these things, but also themselves. It's like some form of weird stockholm syndrome mixed with desperation and a really low level of common sense/intelligence.
I'm going to look at it like a social experiment mixed with one of those really, really bad reality tv shows.
LORDMOGY
17:48 Sep 09 2021
IveXtastedxthexrainbow
18:55 Sep 09 2021
It's like when the girls defended Charles Manson when they first went to prison. After being away from him and having an original thought afterward they finally went 'o fuck" lol.
CuRsEdToDaRkNeSs
19:05 Sep 09 2021
For some reason Frankenstein has popped into my mind.... Frankenstein meets survivor or something... I dunno. lol.
MooniePie
19:25 Sep 09 2021
Charles Mansion followers for sure. Did you know that in the Heaven's Gate Cult Some male members of the group underwent voluntary castration in preparation for the genderless life they believed awaited them after the suicide Wiki
I could see this happening in that relationship.
IveXtastedxthexrainbow
18:12 Sep 10 2021
Omg yes, I could totally see it!